The best thing you can do for your child is work on yourself.
Preparing for Parenthood
Becoming a parent for the very first time can be an anxiety provoking experience. Most new parents experience the anxiety of wanting to be perfect. Let me remind you, there is no perfect parent. We all have shortcomings. We are human, after all. Transitioning into parenthood is chaotic and beautiful at the same time. There are so many firsts, so many unknowns. So what can you do to prepare for such a special time? The first step is knowing yourself. How were you shown love as a child? What was missing? Are there any generational cycles that you are looking to break? Are there childhood wounds that may affect how you transition into parenthood? These are all questions you should be asking yourself when preparing for parenthood.
You and Your Partner
- Create a habit of praising your partner when they do something right to promote a positive perspective.
- Seek moments of connection. Something as simple as cooking dinner together can be a bonding experience.
- Don’t stop behaving like a couple. Date nights can remind you that you’re still partners, not just parents.